Everything we know about the husband
of Mary and the foster father of
Jesus comes from Scripture and that
has seemed too little for those who
made up legends about him.
We know he was a carpenter, a
working man, for the skeptical
Nazarenes ask about Jesus, "Is this
not the carpenter's son?" (Matthew
13:55). He wasn't rich for when he
took Jesus to the Temple to be
circumcised and Mary to be purified
he offered the sacrifice of two
turtledoves or a pair of pigeons,
allowed only for those who could not
afford a lamb (Luke 2:24)
Despite his humble work and means,
Joseph came from a royal lineage.
Luke and Mathew disagree about some
of the details of Joseph’s genealogy
but they both mark his descent from
David, the greatest king of Israel
(Matthew 1:1-16 and Luke 3:23-38).
Indeed the angel who first tells
Joseph about Jesus greets him as
"son of David," a royal title used
also for Jesus.
We know Joseph was a compassionate,
caring man. When he discovered Mary
was pregnant after they had been
betrothed, he knew the child was not
his but was as yet unaware that she
was carrying the Son of God. He
planned to divorce Mary according to
the law but he was concerned for her
suffering and safety. He knew that
women accused to adultery could be
stoned to death, so he decided to
divorce her quietly and not expose
her to shame or cruelty (Matthew
1:19-25).
We know Joseph was man of faith,
obedient to whatever God asked of
him without knowing the outcome.
When the angel came to Joseph in a
dream and told him the truth about
the child Mary was carrying, Joseph
immediately and without question or
concern for gossip, took Mary as his
wife. When the angel came again to
tell him that his family was in
danger, he immediately left
everything he owned, all his family
and friends, and fled to a strange
country with his young wife and the
baby. He waited in Egypt without
question until the angel told him it
was safe to go back (Matthew
2:13-23).
We know Joseph loved Jesus. His one
concern was for the safety of this
child entrusted to him. Not only did
he leave his home to protect Jesus,
but upon his return settled in the
obscure town of Nazareth out of fear
for his life. When Jesus stayed in
the Temple we are told Joseph (along
with Mary) searched with great
anxiety for three days for him (Luke
2:48). We also know that Joseph
treated Jesus as his own son for
over and over the people of Nazareth
say of Jesus, "Is this not the son
of Joseph?" (Luke 4:22).
We know Joseph respected God. He
followed God's commands in handling
the situation with Mary and going to
Jerusalem to have Jesus circumcised
and Mary purified after Jesus'
birth. We are told that he took his
family to Jerusalem every year for
Passover, something that could not
have been easy for a working man.
Since Joseph does not appear in
Jesus' public life, at his death, or
resurrection, many historians
believe Joseph probably had died
before Jesus entered public
ministry.
Joseph is the patron of the dying
because, assuming he died before
Jesus' public life, he died with
Jesus and Mary close to him, the way
we all would like to leave this
earth.
Joseph is also patron of the
universal Church, fathers,
carpenters, and social justice.
We celebrate two feast days for
Joseph: March 19 for Joseph the
Husband of Mary and May 1 for Joseph
the Worker.
There is much we wish we could know
about Joseph -- where and when he
was born, how he spent his days,
when and how he died. But Scripture
has left us with the most important
knowledge: who he was -- "a
righteous man" (Matthew 1:18).
In His Footsteps: Joseph was foster
father to Jesus. There are many
children separated from families and
parents who need foster parents.
Please consider contacting your
local Catholic Charities or Division
of Family Services about becoming a
foster parent.